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On Authority: The Blogosphere/Real World Divide

While I’m wildly extroverted now, as an adolescent I was a surefire leg grabber; anytime anyone attempted to engage me with their phony, high-pitched cooing, my eyes would dart from side to side, as I ever-so-coolly began my retreat behind the nearest adult leg that would shield me from their artificiality–usually to the delight of my Uncle Jimmy.  He was one of the only ones I trusted; I saw how adults interacted with other adults, and it was different from how they interacted with me.   I was suspicious.   I was skeptical.  I was insulted.  I viewed their change of register as an assault on my intelligence.

And so the faintest hints of cynicism toward authority saw it’s early beginnings.

There’s been a lot of talk, lately, surrounding this notion of authority.   Just a few days ago, Problogger guest writer Kelly Diels wrote on the topic of authority in blogging, and what, exactly, that even means.  She did an excellent job of unpacking how authority is created, even delving into the role of gender in the meanwhile.  There were many definitions thrown about, including credibility, trust, rapport, reputation and experience, and, to a large extent, there seemed to be collective agreement.  That is, in terms of the blogosphere, anyway.

But . . . what about outside of the blogosphere? What about in the world we live in away from the computer screen?  Do the same rules apply?  Is authority granted, perpetuated, and respected based on the same qualities?

Take a police officer, for example.   What makes him an authority figure?  Is it because he’s credible, trustworthy, reputable and has lots of experience?  Or is it because we’ve internalized the proposed hierarchy, and have learned to regard police officers as authority figures because we’ve been taught that that’s what we should do?  Social order supposedly relies on governing authorities to maintain just that–order–and this is usually understood to be a positive thing.  On the flip side, however, it seems that maintaining order, in many cases, is a synonym for maintaining the status quo.   For maintaining the power structure.  For maintaining the interests of those in power.

That said, the question I really want to get at is whether or not this type of authority is actually authority.  Is authority synonymous with power?  Is authority nothing more than manufactured status in a uniform?  Initially, my first thought was that authority as such, based on power and control, is not what I’d naturally associate with credibility, trust or rapport, hence separating the real-world authority versus blogging authority in my mind.  (Although the two categories aren’t mutually exclusive.)  However, later it occurred to me that if the blogger’s goal is to gain credibility, trust, rapport and, ultimately, authority. . . isn’t the reason that authority is desired is so power and control can be gained?

To me, this reads as a converse relationship between the real world and the blogosphere; in the real world, one gains authority by first having power and control, and in the blogosphere, one gains power and control by first having authority.

Regardless of the circumstances, in either case authority is nothing more than a perception, as it’s been said.  It means being perceived as having power and control or, in the case of bloggers, being perceived as credible & trustworthy.  But, all in all, if authority is just a perception, and a perception is nothing more than an individual’s interpretation . . . then does actual authority actually exist?  More importantly, should we be abiding by, obeying, & living within the dimensions of something that doesn’t exist?  Or do we continue to play along, and for whose sake?

Certainly I’m not encouraging anyone to engage in a high-speed car chase when a police officer is attempting to pull you over for a traffic violation–that example was used because it made it easy to illustrate the point.  (As a matter of fact, please don’t.)

But what about authority in terms of your own life?   Do you live by your own rules, or someone else’s?  In other words, do you have power and control over your life, or does someone else?

What if you were to become your own authority on your life? Shouldn’t you be better qualified, given that you actually are an expert on you, versus someone who is just perceived to be?

I’m going to steal a quote from the email signature of a reader who recently wrote me, because I thought it was fantastic:

“They must find it difficult … those who have taken authority as truth rather than truth as authority.” ~ Gerald Massey

And with that, I digress.

What are your thoughts?  Is authority real?

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  • http://www.OptimisticJourney.com/ Jarrod@ Optimistic Journey

    Interesting angle Ashley! It is so true that here in the blogosphere many are looking for authority so that they can have power and control, when the converse is happening in the real world. Everyone wants authority but authority is obtained differently in the real world than it is here in the blogosphere. This is good food for thought and really makes me think, thanks for sharing!

  • brentongieser

    Hey Ash,

    Since I missed your Success Book emails I had to drop by your blog and I must say your blog posts outdo your emails…hard to believe.

    I feel that authority online is used in a completely difference context than in the outside world.  Online, authority is synonymous with trust and reach.  Authority is built over time and through the relationships you build within your community.  On the other hand the outside world authority is determined solely by status and the scary thing is that status can be obtain without the trust of the people they lead.  Two different uses of the word I guess.

    Anyways it's pretty obvious that you our the authority of your own world…you got swag Ash!  Thanks for the great article…

    • TMFproject

      Oh no, my friend–YOU'VE got swag!  I think you might have made me blush a little with this comment.  Me likey! 

      We'll have to join forces yet again in the very, very near future.  Si? 

      :)

  • TMFproject

    Wow – great example.  Parents are well-meaning, but you're right–it is about perception.  Generational differences are a much more powerful force than we oftentimes acknowledge–someone born in the 40's will inevitably have a different perception on what's right, than someone born in the 80's. 

    By the way, would looooove to hear THAT story.  Tijuana?  My oh my!

  • TMFproject

    Love the attitude!

  • TMFproject

    Man, the only people that have kissed my ass lately are waiters who are paid to do so, and maybe the religious chick I talked to the other day.  I think she thought I was going to put a curse on her. 

    You're so, so right about the beauty of the blogosphere – if you have ideas, you have a platform on which to exchange them.  You no longer have to wait for someone to give you permission to write for an audience; you just get out there and find your own. 

    And, if that's how bloggers are gaining authority–but putting out their knowledge and showcasing their talent–then I think that this type of authority has the potential to be far more valid (not in all cases, of course, but hence the word potential). 

    Your comment really contributed to the conversation on this—please, please never unsubscribe here!  :)

    P.S.  You get the award for the most intelligent, yet sassy commenter ever.  This is a good thing.

  • TMFproject

    True.  You definitely raise a good point, although I might also argue that society in general has collectively agreed upon general authority figures.  However, on an individual level, you're absolutely right.  I might worship one person, and you might think differently of that same person- and in that sense, it's absolutely subjective.  Great thoughts – thanks for sharing, Justin!

  • TMFproject

    Gosh, I couldn't have hoped for a more beautifully written comment, Audrey – you've so eloquently summarized my thoughts better than I have.  “To live life true to who you are and what you want your legacy to be.”  I second that, a million times over.  Thanks for dropping by, and for sharing your thoughts!  I appreciate it.

  • TMFproject

    Awesome comment, Katy, and much appreciated!  You're so right–power is only powerful when you surrender your own.  And theoretically, that seems so logical, although I imagine that it'd be difficult to actually implement on a large scale, because you'd need a collective group of people to agree not to give those people that power.  Love the Labyrinth reference!!

  • http://www.theskooloflife.com/ Srinivas Rao

    Well said. I come from a family where authority always seemed to rule. And I've always had issues with authority. Just to give you an example, I recently gave a speech at my alma mater, recorded it, and put it on FB. The comments from my dad were “good speech, but your language needs to be polished.” OK, so I use the occasion expletive. Authority tells you that's not a proper way to give a speech, so most people wouldn't do that.  So, no doubt it's perception that creates authority.

    I think think people who break the rules and make new ones are really the ones who understand this idea of authority being based largely on perception.

    -Srini

    p.s. I have fled from the cops in a high speed car chase (but that was in Tijuana).

    • TMFproject

      Wow – great example.  Parents are well-meaning, but you're right–it is about perception.  Generational differences are a much more powerful force than we oftentimes acknowledge–someone born in the 40's will inevitably have a different perception on what's right, than someone born in the 80's. 

      By the way, would looooove to hear THAT story.  Tijuana?  My oh my!

  • kathy

    oh how i just loathe authority! of any kind. period. like jen, i've learned to live by my own rules. my life, my rules.

    • TMFproject

      Love the attitude!

  • http://findyourselflost.com kristin norris

    Well you know that the blogosphere is probably one of closest instances of a true meritocracy. Unfortunately, a meritocracy is based on achievement, not knowledge and not necessarily talent. So authority is dished out based on numbers of subscribers, frequency of posts, and total downloads of ebooks.

    That said, the blogosphere has a good thing going for it in that if you DO have talent and knowledge, such as the oh-so-lovely author of this post (kissing ass? maybe), and you don't mind spending the time to put a few tidbits of work in here and there, you can shoot to the front of the line.

    So, knowledge and talent aren't necessary, but they aren't discriminated against, either.

    In the 'real' world (where obviously none of us actually live…) authority does seem to be based on title, which may or may not be based on anything substantial. And is thus a silly concept created to establish power and control in a 'civilized' society. Which is kind of lame, but I suppose…understandable…

    I think I'll prefer to stay in the blogosphere where if I think you're dumb and don't know what you're talking about, I can just unsubscribe.

    • TMFproject

      Man, the only people that have kissed my ass lately are waiters who are paid to do so, and maybe the religious chick I talked to the other day.  I think she thought I was going to put a curse on her. 

      You're so, so right about the beauty of the blogosphere – if you have ideas, you have a platform on which to exchange them.  You no longer have to wait for someone to give you permission to write for an audience; you just get out there and find your own. 

      And, if that's how bloggers are gaining authority–but putting out their knowledge and showcasing their talent–then I think that this type of authority has the potential to be far more valid (not in all cases, of course, but hence the word potential). 

      Your comment really contributed to the conversation on this—please, please never unsubscribe here!  :)

      P.S.  You get the award for the most intelligent, yet sassy commenter ever.  This is a good thing.

  • justinmatthews

    Great ideas Ashley.  I don't think authority on a subject equals power becasue both can be so subjective.  Who has power?  who has authority?  my answers are probably different from yours.  Like Nate said, authority is linked to knowledge around the internet.  I think there is less of that in real life and we give “authority” to people because of a job title.
    Justin

    • TMFproject

      True.  You definitely raise a good point, although I might also argue that society in general has collectively agreed upon general authority figures.  However, on an individual level, you're absolutely right.  I might worship one person, and you might think differently of that same person- and in that sense, it's absolutely subjective.  Great thoughts – thanks for sharing, Justin!

  • http://www.uncorneredmarket.com/ Audrey

    In my ideal world, authority is gained through merit – knowledge, experience, emotional intelligence. Unfortunately, I don't live in an ideal world. What I see is that authority is gained through position and power in the real world (how many of us have had bosses who really don't “deserve” their title?). And while I'd like to think it is gained in the blogosphere based on quality work and ideas, I see that sometimes it can be gained through the numbers game. In the end, the authority that really matters is your own – to live life true to who you are and what you want your legacy to be. Trying to live up to other authorities just leaves you scrambling for milestones that may not be right for you even though the rest of the world recognizes them as signs of power or success.

    • TMFproject

      Gosh, I couldn't have hoped for a more beautifully written comment, Audrey – you've so eloquently summarized my thoughts better than I have.  “To live life true to who you are and what you want your legacy to be.”  I second that, a million times over.  Thanks for dropping by, and for sharing your thoughts!  I appreciate it.

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  • katybowman

    This is an interesting discussion, and an interesting point. I've thought a lot about this, actually, and here's the conclusion I've come to. People gain power and authority because other people choose to give it to them. It's a socio-cultural construct. If people chose to not give those people power or authority, they would no longer have it. That's kind of dense (the topic is kind dense, I guess). Ok, here's my favorite example. Remember the movie Labyrinth? Yes, the one with David Bowie and his magic pants. Ok, so, at the end of the movie, Jennifer Connelly finally defeats the goblin king by telling him “You have no power over me.” She realizes that she is the one giving him power over her and she decides to stop. I think it all works exactly like that. As soon as you decide that a person or idea or thing no longer has power or authority, then they cease to have it (at least as far as you're concerned).

    • TMFproject

      Awesome comment, Katy, and much appreciated!  You're so right–power is only powerful when you surrender your own.  And theoretically, that seems so logical, although I imagine that it'd be difficult to actually implement on a large scale, because you'd need a collective group of people to agree not to give those people that power.  Love the Labyrinth reference!!

  • http://www.fearlessendeavors.com/ Nate

    I didn't read the post you referred to here, but it seems that authority is being thrown around in the blogosphere as a synonym for 'knowledge' or 'expertise.' I think that it's relating to this part of the definition:

    an expert whose views are taken as definitive; “he is an authority on corporate law”

    There are obviously instances in history (and today) where people use knowledge to exert power and control over others.  Media definitely comes to mind….

    In my mind, something is wrong if you are purely trying to gain 'authority' to have power over others even in the case of so-called knowledge.  Or, maybe it's better to state it this way.  Whenever you start getting into thinking that you know more than someone else or start judging someone else for whatever reasons (you don't agree with their opinions, etc, etc,) then that's when you should start questioning your own thoughts and where they're coming from.

    • TMFproject

      You raise an awesome point with the media, although I'd also add that they use their influence to exert control over others; it's downright disturbing to realize how much we, as Americans, are largely unaware of the world's happenings because we consume it through the filter of the American media.  We know what the American media want us to know–unless we take steps to seek further information for ourselves.

  • http://rulesoptional.com Andrew MacPherson

    Oh no… Not you too! Kelly and I talked about this topic before her post… You and I talked about it before this one. I'd accuse both of you of stealing my ideas, but despite agreeing with a large part of what both of you wrote, I still have a different take on it. Further, after reading both posts, I felt like we were never even talking about the same thing to begin with. :)

    in the real world, one gains authority by first having power and control, and in the blogosphere, one gains power and control by first having authority.

    Good observation.

    • TMFproject

      That's like dangling a carrot and then snatching it away!  (Or, in more realistic terms relative to my life, it's like dangling gooey, hot, greasy, cheesy pieces of buffalo wing pizza and then snatching it away.) Don't leave us hanging here, MacPherson!

      P.S.  Definitely don't remember having this convo with you.  That said, at some point or another we've probably discussed everything under the sun, so I don't doubt it either.

  • http://www.reachourdreams.com/ Jen

    Interesting thoughts Ash … question everything! Love that quote at the end. More and more I live by my own rules … I have found I notice the implied rules that are all around us a lot more these days particularly thru hanging out on the web with rebellious, authority questioning cool kids like you! :)

    • TMFproject

      I know, right?  “Hanging out” with you guys on the web is actually quite dangerous to society.  :p

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