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Shattering the Current Model of Reality (And a Big Announcement!)

Most of you reading this website are here because you want more.

Tried and true may be comfortable, but boring.  The traditional life path may be safe, but uninspiring.  The status quo is average, but nothing extraordinary.

You know there’s something missing, but you can’t pinpoint what, exactly, it is.

We’ve essentially been told for years that hard work pays off.  You’ve gone and done everything the way you’ve been told you were suppose to do it.  We’ve been under the impression this whole time that as long as we put in our dues, we’ll be rewarded, and handsomely.   This was the model of reality we’ve built up in our minds, assuming that by following the rules, eventually the right of passage would open its doors to us, and we’d saunter on through in our Armani suit, whistling show tunes and brushing our shoulders off before asking someone to pass the Corvasier.

Unfortunately, the truth of the matter is that right now, you’re lucky if you even have a job, let alone an Armani suit.  Maybe you happen to be in that crowd.  If not, then chances are you’re probably looking for a job. Or maybe you’re one of the brave, who’s elected to try and build an unconventional business & lifestyle.  Regardless of the circumstances, you haven’t been able to quiet the small, nagging voice in the back of your mind that says, “Is this it?  Is this what I’ve been working for my whole life?  This?

But you make every attempt to silence that voice, because now that you’ve put so much time and effort into X career or Y life plan, you feel obligated.  You tell yourself that you’re just going to have to stick it out.  And so you do.  But it doesn’t get better.

The small voice eventually becomes a bigger one, reminding you that you deserve more. You start to resent that voice, and then start to resent yourself.  This is your one precious life, after all.  But just as soon as the thought pops into your head, you immediately hit a brick wall; you wouldn’t know how to change it if you wanted to.  What’s a person to do?  Go back to school?  Up and quit?  Stay and start a business on the side?  Exile themselves from the country?  Just say screw it, and sit at home eating buckets of fried chicken and Twizzlers all day long?

I’ve been in that position.  Not the friend chicken and Twizzler position (usually), but the lost and confused and crushed position.  And man was it unsettling.  Frustrating.  Disillusioning.  Heartbreaking.

Others have asked themselves these same questions, too.  Take Colin Wright of exilelifestyle.com or Andi Norris of instigationology.com.  Both of these cool cats started out doing out doing something entirely different than what they’re doing now.  Yet somehow, all of us have managed to jump oh-so-gracefully over that little disheartened hurdle, and leap into something that, after taking some inner inventory, made more sense for us.  We’re now doing things that we like to do, because, well, we like them.  And isn’t that the point?

But more importantly, we’re doing things we like to do because we gave ourselves permission to go ahead and do so. To not be afraid to scrap it all and start over.  To teeter on up to the edge of something new, poke it in the side and say, “Hey.  Let’s take some risks, you big, Santa Claus – esque imaginary metaphor, you.” To put ourselves out there, recognizing that the universe can never say yes, if we never ask anything of it.  It’s a go big or go home mentality, and it’s literally saved our lives.

Zee Big Annoucement

So maybe that’s why when the three of us got to talking about how much fun it would be to, oh, say, drive clear across the United States, we knew right from the beginning that this was something we had to do.

What better way to connect with all of you that we interact with online each and every day?

What better way to take our broader message and inject it with a straight shot of nitrous oxide?  (Not in the laughing gas sense, of course, but in the car racing sense.  Zoom, zoom, anyone?)

What better way to create a larger purpose, and leverage the awesome networks we’ve been fortunate to build, in order to bring more of you together in the name of facilitating innovation, big ideas & even bigger ass kicking?

Allow me to formerly introduce to you the official Status Quo Smackdown Roadtrip 2010, where myself, Andi & Colin hop in a car, risk extreme cramping of the limbs & the very real possibility of insanity, in order to drive thousands of miles to come visit in person.  And we couldn’t be more excited / thrilled / unable to stop thinking about how dangerously terrific it’ll be.

The Plan

Starting July 1st, 2010, we’ll begin in New York City, heading north up to Maine, and then loop back down again to Washington D.C. From there, we’ll mosey on down to Florida, hopefully encounter some white tee shirt contests, at which point we’ll swing back up through New Orleans, Memphis, Missouri & Illinois, chillax over in Madison, Minneapolis, Omaha & Denver, and then ride ‘em cowboy our way right back down to Texas, New Mexico & Vegas, before zooming up through California, stopping to play in Oregon & finally ending in Washington state.  The schedule is tentative to date, but we’ll be making adjustments over the next two months before the tour begins.

So, there you have it!  We’ve got some amazing potential sponsors (and if you have suggestions for someone we should be talking to, definitely get in touch), and we’d like to encourage anyone & everyone to come meet up with us in your nearest city, where we’ll be holding all sorts of fun un-conferences, meet-ups & beer drinking sessions.  To sweeten the pot, there might even be fake mustaches.  But shhh–Colin & Andi don’t know that yet.  We’re also open to your ideas on what you’d like to see from us, so feel free to give us a shout.

We’d be honored if you’d go ahead & check out the new site, www.waybelowstatusquo.com, and sign up to come hang out with us in your city, under the “Groups” section.  It’s no definitive commitment–we’d just like to get an idea of what to expect, and where.  You can always bail later if you want, but I’ll probably cry, in which case you’ll be obligated to come buy me a drink.

Last but not least, let us know if you’d be interesting in hosting our happy little threesome.  We want to really connect with everyone, and we’re trying to make a point of not staying in hotels for that reason.  I’ll be including updates about the tour at the end of my regular posts as they come up, including more definitive dates, but let us know if you’re interested.

Hope to see you soon!  And for the record, I will have mace with me, just in case you’re still mad about my Education post.  Or the racism one.  Orrr the one on capitalism & altruism.

Status Quo Smackdown Roadtrip 2010, baby.  Who’s in?

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  • http://www.seoconsult.co.uk Mack

    This is really very beautiful post and i liked the way you arranged the words.I am glad to readout your post.It is very interesting.
    Thanks for all of your kind words – the site is slowly but surely growing!
    Good luck!!

  • http://www.nunomad.com/blog Carmen Bolanos

    Very cool. Come stay with us in Austin!

  • Charlie

    no shit, it did turn blue. A-M-A-Z-I-N-G

  • Charlie

    Ashley,

    “To not be afraid to scrap it all and start over.”

    35 and about to do just that. You express yourself very well on your blog.  I am envious.  I am a local yokel near WCU (Downingtown) who is done working for the MAN.  I hope your group has a good time on your travels.  If you ever want to make a few dollars sharing your knowledge about how to set up a blog let me know.  I am totally retarded with this stuff.  How do I embed a link in a comment?  Anyway, have a drink on me.  Also – you should have way more then 1200 readers.  My lifestyle redesign dream (5 year reality?) involves me living on a houseboat here: http://www.bluepeak.net/pictures/canada/yukon/h…

    Now how come the text won't turn blue?

    • TMFproject

      Hey, Charlie!  Great to connect with someone so close.  I'm here in Chester Springs as we speak, and was just over at Fire Creek in Downingtown recently for dinner.  Small world! 

      Thanks for all of your kind words – the site is slowly but surely growing! 

      If you'd like to open dialogue, feel free to shoot me an email at ash@themiddlefingerproject.org and we can continue the convo that way.

      And yes! The link DID show up and WOW!!!

      -Ash
      Sent from a Blackberry

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  • http://theorganicsister.com ~Tara

    What about those of us without a current town, already on the road?

    I'll have to stalk your journey and find you on the road. :)

  • http://www.tumblemoose.com George Angus

    Wha?  Oh, Continental United States.  Dang.  hey, Alaska is only a few thousand mile side trip.  C'mon, where's your sense of adventure?  Hehe.

    Seriously, sounds like a total blast.  Can't wait to read all about it, dah-link.  Lots o' pics, please!

    smooches.

    George

  • http://twitter.com/Pixelsteam Taylor Moore

    Hey Ash and Gang,
    What about crossing the 49th into BC Canada.  We live on a farm with a bunch of critter. You are more than welcome;)

  • http://www.solitarypanda.com floreta

    ah, so make me jealous that i'm abroad. ;P

    rock on! wish i could meet you three cool cats. :D

    • TMFproject

      @floreta
      How I wish you were here, too.  :(

  • TJ_The_Bartender

    Sounds like an awesome project. Good luck and maybe we'll see you in my hometown.

    • TMFproject

      @TJ
      Where's your hometown?!

      • TJ_The_Bartender

        Virginia Beach. Halfway down the east coast, 20 mins. outside of NC. I highly encourage a pass through. :) Then again… I am biased.

  • http://www.candicedoestheworld.com Candice

    Sighhh, just the type of post I needed to read this morning. Excited for you!

    • TMFproject

      @Candice
      Please say we'll have the opportunity to meet you!

  • http://www.thelifething.com Jonny | thelifething.com

    I have already voice my disgust that you are not planning to make a stop over in the UK. I mean really, it's not event that far, literally just over the water.

    We will be having words.

    • TMFproject

      @Jonny
      The last time I was in England, some dude looked at me with pure disgust and says, “You're an Americannnn, aren't you?”  I don't know that me and the UK get along very well.  :p Ha.  Was it the red cowboy boots that gave me away?

  • http://twitter.com/Alentijns Kristof Alentijns

    Very cool project:), but will have to take a rain check for the next tour unless you guys take a detour through Indonesia (if so let me know, I will give out free surf lessons).

    • TMFproject

      @Kristof
      I am floored by the number of people that are over that way–seriously, I think I'm going to have to come out there.  Muahaha.  Let that be a warning!

  • kathy

    ASH!!!! you guys better stop by santa fe on your national tour! you can even stay with me if you don't have a place to lay your brilliant heads! can. not. wait! wahoooooo!

    • TMFproject

      @Kathy
      Thanks, Kathy!  I can't wait to get out to those parts!!

  • 1976Hoosiers

    this is one of the coolest things I have heard of! Two things! A: You guys should try and make a detour and I can host you in Indy! I have a pull out couch for the fellas and you can stay in my bed Ash ;p B: If you guys are planning a part deux of this little extravaganza I want in! You rock your blog rocks and thats all I got!

    • TMFproject

      @1976
      Rabah – hahahahahah one litttttle detail: Andi is a chick, not a fella!  :p And…do you have memory foam?  Because that's highly desirable.  Ha.  :)

      • http://www.way2hype.com 1976Hoosiers

        Memory Foam no but I have a really comfy bed and a huge mirror above it (in a non-creepy way) which should suffice in the lack of my memory foam. As for the Andi being a chick scenario I think we could arrange something (in a non-creepy way). On a side note, when are we going on our date ;p

  • katiekasz

    Rock on kids. Rock on!

    • TMFproject

      @KatieKasz
      Will be sending you videos of myself salsa dancing in every city!  Ha!

      • katiekasz

        Please do! ORRRRR…. How about I start a blog and follow your car…. then we can salsa dance together in every city?!!!! ;-)

  • http://twitter.com/tylertervooren Tyler Tervooren

    Consider yourselves hosted in Portland.

    • TMFproject

      @Tyler
      I can't WAIT to come to Portland!  Have heard so many awesome things!  Yes!

  • http://livesimplyfree.com/ Andrew Randazzo

    You totally have a place to stay in Knoxville.

    • TMFproject

      @Andrew
      Thanks for the invite!!  You better believe we're making a list.  :p

  • http://www.thewaythatyouwander.com Nate

    I am so damn excited for this! The weird thing is that I may not be in Maine when you all come up this way, but I could be in D.C. And traveling to Boston to meet y'all would totally be doable as well if that needs to happen. So I'll be meeting you, whether in Portland ME, Washington D.C. or Boston! Yahoooooo

    • TMFproject

      @Nate
      Ha, come meet us in all three cities!  ;) I have a feeling we'll all get along just spectacularly–you might not want to leave!

  • niferann

    So exciting! This is such a cool idea! I've already registered on the Status Quo site, and I'm looking forward to meeting up with you in Boston, if I can! I'm a bit sad you won't be swinging through Providence, RI, as that is closer to me though.

    • TMFproject

      @niferann
      We'll keep you posted if the schedule changes!  Would LOVE to meet you.

  • http://teeveeaguirre.com/ teevee

    Let me ponder this for a moment.

    Would I like to meet 3 of the most awesome people online offline or simply stay home and read about their awesomeness?

    I suppose I will go with the HELL to the YEAH! I look forward to meeting all of you! Where do I sign? ;)

    • TMFproject

      @Teevee

      HELL YEAH!!!!!!  Really can't wait to meet you.  I should probably warn everyone in advance–I'm one heck of a hugger. And I will be hugging you.  Consider yourself warned.

      • http://teeveeaguirre.com/ teevee

        I will take it under advisement. :) You're awesome with a side order of Fabulous. ;)

  • srinirao

    Nice. I can't wait to meet you guys. We'll have to do a bloggers surf lesson when you guys are here. Fortunately the water will be decently warm by then :) .

    • TMFproject

      @Srini

      THIS IS ABSOLUTELY HAPPENING.  And we are absolutely videotaping it.  And I might be beyond excited about it!  Yes!

  • Chad Walker

    Would love to see you guys, and you have to drive through Boise, on I-84 to get to Portland, so make a quick stop.  After all you can't pass up a cold beverage at the Neurolux, next door to one of the last real brick and mortar record stores in the country.

    • TMFproject

      @Chad
      Sounds like a good time, friend! 

      We'll let everyone know as soon as we have some more specifics!  Let's keep in touch.

      Cheers!

  • http://www.renegadeyogi.com/ Eric Normand

    Oh, no!  I would love to meet/host you in New Orleans.  But I'm going on my own status-quo nuking trip around the world.  I, sadly, won't be in the US when you start your tour.

    Oh well, maybe you can visit me and my gf in Tibet or Nepal!

    • TMFproject

      @Eric
      Tour around the world!  That's fantastic! I supppppose I won't hold it against you. ;) . Send us a postcard telling us what beer and from which country turns out to be your fav! 

      Awesome.

  • http://exilelifestyle.com/ Colin Wright

    You know I'm in :)

    • TMFproject

      @Colin
      Thank goodness, because Andi and I need a pimp.

      • katiekasz

        if colin decides to bail, i could think of a colombian or two wait, three to take his place as your pimp.  Dude….at least you'd have good security!!!

  • homsic4ph

    Cool!  I'm in!  What an idea.  Three rock stars on tour.

    • TMFproject

      @homsic
      Awesome!  Though, I have a feeling we will be surrounded by rockstars once you guys all come out. :)

  • http://www.marsdorian.com/ Mars Dorian

    That's is freaking awesome !!! – what an epic way of spreading the message ! Damn it – I wish I was in the States – I would be there.
    If it's successful, and if you got tons of new readers and admirers – maybe you expand your mission to a global conquest ?

    • TMFproject

      @Mars
      I would absolutely be willing to take this to an international level is provided the opportunity.  Status Quo Smackdown Goes Global! ;) .

      Wish you could be here to partake with us.

  • http://www.livecollarfree.com/ James Schipper

    Sounds like a good time. I'll be looking for the map updates and fake mustaches.

    • TMFproject

      @James
      If anyone would be likely to don a fake mustache with me, itd be you my friend. And I mean that as the sincerest compliment!

      • http://www.livecollarfree.com/ James Schipper

        I dunno. Those kind of shenanigans sound a bit wacky and unlike anything I would do http://bit.ly/a96YOE

        • TMFproject

          @James

          OH.  MY.  GOSH.  THAT.  IS.  PURE.  AWESOMENESS!  Only you would ALREADY HAVE a mustache photo!!!!!!

          • http://www.livecollarfree.com/ James Schipper

            Don't make me bust out the Movember pictures…

  • http://www.lifewithoutpants.com Matt Cheuvront

    Awesome! Awesome! Awesome! I can't wait to meet all three of you. The end.

    • TMFproject

      @MattChevront
      Let the debauchery begin.  The end.

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