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The Numbers Don’t Mean Jack.

this entry has 39 Comments/ in Lessons + Stories from the Road, Shit That Matters / by Ash

Hi. 

It’s me, Ash.

Was that obvious?

I’m sorry to pardon your regular programming, but today we’re going to talk numbers.

I hate numbers–you can go square root your mom.

But sometimes, you’ve got to look at ‘em. You know…like when it’s tax season.

As you may remember, in 2011 I publicly showed the world how to make $100,000 in a year with a blog, using TMF as a case study.

Just this past year I was pleased to see TMF alone pull a revenue of $151,040–most of which was profit, since online businesses carry very little overhead.

(I’m pretty sure the biggest expense from last year was Paypal fees–$4,264.00. That, and wine. Let’s be honest.)

 

 

 

And in 2013, TMF is only going to continue to grow.

But that’s the thing I’ve been thinking a lot about lately–grow how?

Too often, business owners measure their success against their bank accounts, cringing over missing zeros and celebrating only when they add one.

And while–sure–it’s nice to be able to spring for the $100 bottle of wine whenever you damn well please, that $100 bottle of wine doesn’t say jack about what you’ve really accomplished with your business.

Because what I’ve really accomplished this past year, for example, can’t be summed up in that $151,000–or any other income I generate.

What I’ve really accomplished was so much more than that.

And as I move forward in 2013, I’d like to think that my goals won’t be driven by zeros–they’ll be driven by impact. (That sounds so painfully cliché of me, but it’s precisely what I mean.) Impact like: How can I make an even bigger one? How can I use this platform to make a difference? How can I connect people that need to be connected? How can I use my obnoxiously large head to benefit others…better? 

For example, I’ve been tickled to get so many emails from folks sharing their newly updated product or service descriptions, thanks to the series of posts I wrote on that topic–remember the J.Peterman examples? (These from Kelly Cameron were among my favorite I received, by the way!)

What I wrote had an impact on those business owners, and those business owners will go on to sell more of their stuff, and in turn, have a greater impact on their people.

And that’s really cool.

Impact is cool.

…And it’s also a responsibility.

With that in mind, it’s my intention to make my 2013 projects very impact-heavy, and very help-happy. Almost to the point of hippie-esque, except not at all, because billowy skirts make my ass look huge.

 

But I do have a nest of fun projects buried up my hot-orange sleeve that I think will be really useful + insightful, including:

:: A tentative Creative Marketing Bootcamp coming in March. Except it won’t be called Bootcamp because I hate that fucking word.

:: A small business support group called Private Parts: Show us yours, and we’ll show you ours: Stripping each others businesses naked, and (re) dressing for success. …Because nothing here at TMF is TMI. (This is going to be a lot of fun, and I think you’re going to love it.)

:: Intense, no-nonsense, one-on-one consulting, featuring both solicited and unsolicited advice–I come on like a member of your team, and we turn the art of money-making into a game. (Spoiler alert: We win.)

:: My book. (Okay so this one’s a little selfish.)

:: The launch of a new company called Life Hooky: Retreats for Confused People. 

:: Andddd potentially a new blog. And maybe new socks. New socks are always nice, aren’t they?

- 

Because it’s about so much more than the numbers.
And only within the past ten years have I had the financial breathing room to be able to really see that. 
Growing up, the numbers told the only story I knew.

9,000.

Our annual income.

10.

How old I was when I started riding my bike to buy the groceries and stop at the bank to deposit our monthly checks–$592 from a mortgage my mom held, and $200 in child support from a guy I never met. Brian Morris. Philadelphia police officer. Know him?

72.

The year the trailer we lived in was made.

16.

Percentage of people from my county in Pennsylvania who went to college.

0.

The number of cars we had.

<0.

The number of bets anyone would have made that someone with my background would become a millionaire before age 30. (Okay, so I’m not a millionaire just yet. But I’m also not 30 just yet. HANG TIGHT.)

 

Statistically speaking, I shouldn’t own a company. I shouldn’t make 7 figures–ever. I shouldn’t have an assistant. I shouldn’t travel the world. I shouldn’t have a master’s degree. I shouldn’t be fluent in a second language. I shouldn’t have maximum health insurance coverage. And I damn well shouldn’t have the luxury to choose. 

But guess fucking what?

I do. 

And when the odds aren’t in your favor?

Remember that you can, too.  

That’s just one more reason why I don’t like numbers.

Because while they might be great at analyzing the current data…

…turns out they’re shit for predicting the future.

 

 

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  • Chris

    Holy shit! Pulverizing it!!

  • Micah G Robinson

    Ya damn right!

    That last set of numbers and end of copy you shared, you go girl!

    Excited for 2013 :)

  • http://www.facebook.com/andiperullo Andi Perullo de Ledesma

    Wow wow wow!!! You go girl! I am soooooo impressed and in awe!

  • http://twitter.com/AmberGwynne Amber Gwynne

    I SOOOOOOOOO needed to read this tonight. This is my second year as a freelancer and I need to make things happen soon. The last day or so, I’ve allowed myself to be crushed under the weight of all my ‘Can’ts’: I can’t market myself, I can’t possibly promote myself, I can’t do this, can’t can’t can’t. This post really turned my frown upside down. Thank you.

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      Darling, you so CAN. Think of it all as an experiment – test the waters – have some fun with your marketing, and realize that in the end, it’s really just the art form of learning how to connect with other human beings in the right way….the ones who are going to be totally turned on and jazzed by everything that you do. ART. FORM. :)

  • http://www.facebook.com/marshall.lee.792740 Marshall L Ray

    This. Is. Bad. ASS.

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      Your avatar is pretty BAD. ASS.

  • http://twitter.com/sailorscorpio Meredith S

    Ash. I needed this. I needed this today most of all. With the bitch smacks life keeps serving up, I need this reminder that NOTHING is going to stand between me and my dreams this year. I promised myself something awesome. I can’t break that promise. Not again. Not this year. Not when the big 3-0 is breathing heavily on the back of my neck, twirling its ironic handle-bar mustache. Unveiling big things in February no matter what!

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      You’re much farther than you were last January, Mere – that I know. One step at a time. You are on your way!

  • http://www.facebook.com/lana.zelinsky Lana Zelinsky

    Holly Molly, watch out this girl! She can talk you out into a danger…It make me think…What numbers are for freedom? When my mom committed suicide at her 28, she zeroed her choices. Life=freedom=0. At that same moment she handed me a free ticket to my life when I vowed to live to the max. Life=freedom=priceless which is zero also.

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      Wow, Lana. I had no idea. Thanks for sharing this bit of wisdom – hits you hard.

  • Siita

    You could be telling my story! Street smart under dogs can kick butt !
    One of the many reasons why I adore you Ash.
    I’m both cheering you on and power charged with business enthusiasm !
    With you all the way !

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      I’m cheering YOU on. Send me an update when you can Siita!

  • Kyle

    Statistically speaking, it was improbable that two girls from the Midwest meet in Chile and remain friends even when one moves to Costa Rica…we probably *shouldn’t* be international lovers…but WE STILL ARE!

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      Yes…EXCEPT I’M NOT FROM THE MIDWEST. Stop trying to spread nasty rumors about me, Hepp!

  • samasana

    This made me feel very inspired. Thanks, Ash, for your work. It’s incredible.

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      I’m so, so glad. If nothing more, that’s really the goal – to light big, incandescent bon fires. Hell….forest fires.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Kelly-Cameron/1438908276 Kelly Cameron

    Holy Moly, thank you so much for the mention, Super Inspirer. You’ve got the cape, right? Iron sharpens iron and I’m so thankful to have your steel at the ready. 2013 -prepare to have your socks REMOVED.

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      I can’t wait to hear how your prospects react. ;)

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  • rona

    inspired. determined. and downright ready to cry. i’m post menopausal, what’s going on? virtual hugs and overflowing wine bottles with love stuck right in your vein. bliss.

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      “with love stuck right in your vein.” Now THAT is a TMF copywriting workshop product, is it not?! What a hell of a sentence, Rona! So proud of YOU. Thank you for being a part of all of this.

  • Angela

    Holy Balls. I hate numbers too, for the same reason. They don’t show the potential, scope or truth. Just like a scale doesn’t measure your beauty or worth.

    Cheers…
    to remembering we are capable of anything we want even if everything else says we aren’t.
    to the underdogs who have a hell of a lot more fight in em’ than anyone could have ever guessed.

    to you ash, I really needed a reminder.

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      Really great analogy! And let’s kick it into high gear this year, shall we?

  • Shani T

    Love this. I need to hire you!

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      Shoot me an email – me and my coffee cup are mad bonding today. ;)

  • http://www.evolveyourweddingbusiness.com/ Heidi Thompson

    I love your honesty and transparency in this post. It is so inspiring!

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      I was tempted to tell you what age I lost my virginity, but then I thought: No, that will ruin EVERYTHING. ;)

      • http://www.evolveyourweddingbusiness.com/ Heidi Thompson

        Maybe save that one for Private Parts ;)

  • http://twitter.com/CormierCreative Sara Cormier

    I like this post and feel proud for you and your success!

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      I’m so grateful for you dropping by to say so, and to say hello. Seriously – I wish I could get to know everyone that hangs out here more intimately. (Wait, that sounded bad.)

  • http://www.robinhallett.com/ Robin Hallett

    Ash, you Goddess you! Love it all, and bring it on, baby! Woot! Clink and drink :)

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      Great to see your face, Robin! Always such a bright ray of fucking LIGHT.

      • http://www.robinhallett.com/ Robin Hallett

        Yes baby, that’s how I roll! And you deserve every bright ray of fucking LIGHT!! Woot!

  • http://www.danimagestro.com/ Dani M

    God I love this effing post! Just what I needed to hear today. Inspiration with a capital I and a little hot sauce please and thanks.

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      I’m almost out of Frank’s. EMERGENCY!

      • http://www.danimagestro.com/ Dani M

        Good lord girl, don’t let that happen!

  • http://www.facebook.com/whatthefyock Bryan Fyock

    My wife and I, (and our business…soon to be plural) are in love with you.

    • http://www.themiddlefingerproject.org/ Ash Ambirge

      If you tell me that you drink wine by the gallon and like to do laundry, I may be in love with you, too.

      ?!?!?!

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