ASH AMBIRGE

Author, CEO & Founder

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You Have This GREAT IDEA, But You’re Hesitant to Take the Leap. Could This Be Why?

In: Redefining Success

How hard would it really be?

To launch that crazy-fun new business idea. To start something you’ve been dreaming of for months. To get up and get started and go for it. To be able to say, this time tomorrow, that you have begun.

We all radically overestimate how hard it’ll be, and radically underestimate the fact that we are made of fucking stars. (No, I haven’t gone over to the dark side of believing in chakras, but I DID sign up for a—gulp—yoga retreat at Mapperton Estates in England. WHO AM I, SEND HELP!)

Starting is always The Hump. My humps, my humps, my humps, my humps. It’s the simplest thing to do, to get started, and yet? Starting means consequences. Starting means the end of other things: a comfortable mind, an easy day, the relief that comes without having to try so hard.

Starting means work.

It means that you will now have the responsibility of effort. It means getting used to feeling incompetent. It means dropping your pride to becoming a beginner again. And it means that you will have to show up, and show up, and show up—and maybe that’s a lot for you to handle. But at the very least, be clear about that.

Most things aren’t that hard to start.

What’s hard is prioritizing them once you do.

Jul 25

2014

Plan on Being Successful

Jul 25, 2014

I’m the first to promote the bootstrapper spirit, but I’m also first to promote intelligent decisions. And sometimes “crossing that bridge when we come to it,” isn’t as free-spirited as it is stupid. What happens when there’s no bridge? Sure, you can build one. But it may end up costing you significantly more money, energy, time, […]

In: Redefining Success

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Jul 1

2013

The Moments In Between – PAY ATTENTION.

Jul 1, 2013

Success is shit. (Hang on – the punchline is not what you think it is.) We’re always working toward it. (Are you rolling your eyes?) Listing out goals. (Inevitably on some overpriced moleskine.) Sweating. (A lot.) Hustling. (As much as we can before insanity sets in.) And pushing people out of our way to achieve it. […]

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Apr 4

2016

There’s So Much Drama Around EVERYTHING.

Apr 4, 2016

There is so much drama. Around. Everything. I hear it everywhere. In emails. In tweets. In friend’s secrets. In whispers across the internet. Should I launch this? But what about that? What if I fail? What if nobody buys? What if I wasted my time? What if my heart breaks in the process? Should I […]

In: Redefining Success

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I'm a Bad Influence on Women

Hey, I’m Ash! Twenty years ago I was a small town girl growing up in a trailer park in rural Pennsylvania. Fifteen years ago, I lost my family and everything I knew right as I became the first to graduate college. Fourteen years ago, I found myself leaving everything behind for a new life in the city where I could be “normal.” Ten years ago I realized normal was the most disappointing thing that ever happened to me. Nine years ago I quit my job in advertising and pursued my dreams as a creative writer. Eight years ago, I built a 6-figure business doing what I love using nothing more than the Internet and my voice. And now, today, I’m the founder of The Middle Finger Project, an irreverent media co. that helps other women find their voice and teaches them to use it to build whatever the f*ck they want to. With a book coming out with Penguin Random House in February 2020 (YASSS, WE’RE A PRODUCT IN TARGET!) I’m proud to be a bad influence on women and guide them into doing something disobediently brave with their life and their career.

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